The world is full of sad poeple

Meet a old friend today. lets just call him RW. Why i met him is because there is much to catch up, and there is another reason... He just broke up with his long time gf of 4 yrs. As a good friend, i think i have to cheer him up, at the same time understand the reason for the breakup...

He said that his gf (L) thinks that they are together too long and finds that there is no more chemistry between them, thats the reason for the break up... This led me to think that feelings is part and parcel of human activities and behaviour. Just a simple "no more feelings" can cause such a dramatic change in human attitude.

This has led me into thinking that wat would happen if i would to fall in his shoes... would i be able to pick myself up from there knowing that i'm always the weaker part in a relationship... Will I be able to be like my friend thats pick himself up and move on... Hadn'd had a gf for so long...

To think that RW did a lot to substain this relationship to keep the fire going... and L still initiates the breakup... Think this incident really proves the chinese proverb he de lai ze lai, bu he de lai ze qu (roughly translate into "alls well when get along, but when not then leave)... Think humans have very little responsibility. Especially the younger generation... But put it in another point of view... Better not drag too long if there is no more feelings... Its not worth the pain...Think I need to relook into my own love philosophy...

Kelly